An open relationship; Yay or Nay?
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Welcome to another interesting topic on A Moment With Jennie. Let’s have some fun while reading this particular article. Because a lot of men will not agree with this one! A lot of men will develop a migraine and some will pop out veins from their temple if they ever come across this article. But still, ENJOY!
I was on instagram recently and I saw a post on a celebrity page on how open marriages and relationships should be normalized. Apparently said celebrity was bitter because her partner had been cheating on her but she could not leave him because she ‘loves him so much’. So she chose to come rant on instagram about how men would not take half the things she dish out to women and how she wishes open marriages and relationships could be normalized.
Ha! Let us open up that relationship! Open up that marriage y’all! My ladies are suffering!!! They are in chains and shackles! Grant them their freedom! Free them from that prison! They no longer want to be prisoners to your bullshit!(please excuse my french!) Open up that marriage!
No man wants to hear this; ‘Let’s try having an open marriage/relationship’. No man wants to live with the image of another man having sex with their woman, and that is a fact! Men want to have the freedom to flirt at will, sleep around, and be promiscuous all they want but once they hear that another man is flirting with their woman, or being overly nice to their woman, not to even mention sleeping with their woman, they go ballistic and they see red. Why? Because they are territorial and jealous.
But guess what? Women are fed up! They are tired of constantly being on the receiving end of wandering penises. And that’s why there is a rise in the amount of women that cheat on their partners lately. Which is very alarming. Because these men have managed to wake up the beasts in these women. They have made these women unleash a part of them they have been holding down for so long. They no longer want to be the victims, they no longer want to cry themselves to sleep every night. They no longer want to be tied down in the hell that their partners have created for them. They want to be free and if they manage to get that freedom, it will be bloody and bad for these men. And the best part is, these men know it! They know how humiliating it would be to them and their ego if their wives/girlfriends have the freedom to do as they please.
Should couples entertain the idea of an open relationship/marriage?
What is good for the goose is also good for the gander! So, yes. I think it’s time a lot of couples start thinking about the thought and the possibility of an open marriage or an open relationship. Because, why not? If you have a wondering penis, maybe this will help you curb your appetite and thirst for external female companion. Think about it!
If more women start start summing up the courage to express their interests in open marriages and relationships, maybe these men will start being smart and stop being foolish with their nasty act of infidelity. The fear of another man touching their women, sleeping with their women will make them develop very strict self discipline. Maybe, just maybe.
Let us quickly note that there are lots of couples in the world today who are already engaged in this act (the beauty of an open relationship or marriage). They are already enjoying the benefits of having an open marriage or/and open relationship. No body is stressing over anybody doing whatever, nobody is hiding their side chicks and side hens. Everybody is being open with their sexual desires and sexual exploits. And there is peace in the home and peace in the relationship and every body is happy!
Believe me when I say this; I am having so much fun writing this article. It is exciting and exhiliratting to know that a lot of people (men in particular) will read this article and curse me out. But it’s fine. Because then you will know that you can’t always have it your way. The ones that want to Always have it their way feel threatened by smart, bold and confident women and end up marrying young naive girls/women they can control at will. But the best part of this case is that, once these young naive girls are no longer so young and no longer naive, they turn out to be the worse nightmare of these men because then they will see for themselves how their once upon a time young and naive wives have turn out to be worse than those smart, bold and confident women they are afraid to marry. Isn’t life beautiful!
One thing men fail to know and understand is that women get horny too! And a handful of times women tend to have higher sex drive than men do. But they choose to have control over their sexual urges. They choose not to disrespect their men. They choose not to belittle their relationship and their partner. They choose to have discipline. Which is something these cheating men tend to over look and take for granted. Same way men go out there and admire a woman with tiny waist, big boobs and ass is the same way a woman sees a talk, dark and handsome man with the perfect physique and admire him. The same way men admire how beautiful other women are is the same way women admire how good looking other men are. Same way these men admire the smile and sweet voice of other women is the same way women admire the sexy smile and the sexy baritone of other men. Same way men undress women in their minds and see themselves in several sexual positions with these women is the same way women undress these sexy, beautifully built, muscled men with very sexy dimples and pantie dropping smiles in their minds and imagine these men having their way with them 7days to sunday! Again, what is good for the goose is also good for the gander!
Now, let’s talk about the benefits of an open marriage/relationship;
- When you open up your marriage/relationship, the constant nagging will stop. No body will wonder where you are or who you are with or what you are doing. Your woman will give you the space you crave so much. Because then she is getting the desired attention from other women who can’t seem to get enough of her. She probably won’t even think of you while she’s with them. Because she already knows you are out there somewhere, having a swell time with another woman. Because let me tell you, one thing women crave the most in every relationship is attention. Once she’s getting that as much as she desires, she won’t even bother you any more.
- Ladies, once you have the freedom to do as you please, the freedom to admire other men and have at them, you will no longer cry yourself to sleep. You will no longer cry in the shower or wet your pillows(those poor things!) Because you will be too exhausted to even remember how to cry. You will have access to different variety of men to choose from, admire and take home any one of them and be happy with yourself at the end of it all. So, why else would you want to cry?
- Men, once you start enjoying the beauty of an open marriage or relationship, you no longer need to hide your many affairs. You no longer need to hide in the toilet, whispering on the phone late at night. You can always talk to anyone on the phone at will and without worry because she already knows what’s going on and she is probably doing the same!
But as interesting and fun as it is to be in an open relationship, it is also not always a good idea. Because once people hear of your relationship preference, they start to talk, they make fun of you and your partner and this brings all manner of disrespect to you and your partner and even to those around you because then Every body knows!
There is also the danger of the woman falling pregnant and not knowing who the father is, especially if she’s had too many sexual partners.
If you want to open up your marriage and relationship, set rules and make sure every body follows those rules, once anyone of the rules is broken, the door to the relationship/marriage comes back up (with chains and padlock!)
Just know that the moment you open up the door to your marriage or relationship, you are opening your relationship or marriage and yourself up to all manner of things. People will disrespect your union(if you are married). People will disrespect your partner time and again without apologizing because you gave them the liberty to do so. And they will disrespect you and laugh at you, make fun of you and call you stupid and foolish.
My advise to you is this; Get a partner that is on the same page as you. Get a partner that understands what you want and you both need to respect each other, respect your relationship and protect your relationship at all cost! Protect yourself and your partner at all cost!
I know for a fact that, very few men will want to have an open marriage/relationship. Because men are very special beings. They want all the glory, all the freedom, all the privilege to themselves.
That’s it on this particular topic. Thank you for spending A Moment With Jennie. Let this article and the words in them help you make the right decision on this matter. Let’s meet again and spend more intimate time together in the next article. Thanks for reading!
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